brace yourselves, this one is going to be a
doozyWednesday: I woke up at 6 am, got all ready, and headed over to my
hashaa family's house to see if they would give me a ride to the bus stop. After communication was established, they agreed and invited me to sit in the
kitchen until departure. The door of the house opens into a little entry way of sorts which has two doors leading off of it. The door to the right opens up into a room about the size of a standard hotel room minus the bathroom. At least 3 adults and 2 children sleep in that room. The door to the left opens to the kitchen, about the size a king sized bed. Two doorways (sans doors) each lead to a small room, think the length of a hotel room, but the width of a large hallway. The room straight ahead leads to a 3rd bedroom. On this side of the house sleep 7 adults and a baby. It was amazing to see all of these people get ready without getting in each others way or on each others nerves and without a bathroom. Seeing my director kiss on her
grand baby was pretty much the cutest thing ever.
Anyhoo, they drove me to the bus, I got my big backpack put in the undercarriage
compartment, and got my seat, which was right up front since I bought my ticket so early the day before. Then a teacher from my school got on the bus and had something she wanted to communicate to me, i think about her bag she brought, but I am not really sure. All through this she is standing next to my seat and I have my cat in a cat bag on my lap and people are trying to get past her to get on the bus. She keeps leaning over me/almost sitting on me, while I am trying to figure out what she is talking about and trying to prevent the squishing of said cat. It is also dark and freezing.
Eventually everyone gets to their seats and the bus departs.
The bus always stops around halfway between
Arvaikheer and
UB, either at a small town or at a hotel/
restaurant a little ways outside of the small town. Wednesday it was the hotel, which I like better, due to the indoor toilets mostly. I got a fried egg and a small bowl of meat for my princess kitten. After I ate, we went outside so she could eat. This attracted much attention, mostly good, from the men milling around, smoking and peeing, outside. Soon we were all on the bus again. Since the door was still open and it was very cold, I put
Phoebs the Cat in my sweatshirt with her little head poking out. I thought departure was eminent, but then large
Mongolian man, a wrestler? the
proprietor?, came out of the establishment with a traditional blue scarf (
Hatdeg, i think they are called) and some other items and
evidently wanted to present them to someone. Most of the men get off the bus again and one of the waitresses is sent on the bus to get me. Unable to stow Phoebe back in her bag before I was pulled of the bus, she remained in my shirt. The man then presents two
decorous metal objects and the scarf to the driver and many pictures are taken. The large man and the driver, the man and a group of passengers, the man and me, the driver and me, a little boy, possible large man's offspring, and me, the man and my cat, the boy and my cat. After some small chat in which I stun the men by telling them i live in a
ger, we
re board. As everyone shuffles past my front row seat, they touch the nose of my cat. Finally a
s the bus starts rolling, a man across the aisle puts his finger in his mouth and then puts the finger in Phoebe's ear.
Upon arriving in
UB, I shake off around twenty drivers trying to get me in their cabs, grab my bag, and head into the ticket office to procure a bus ticket to
Darkhan. I discover that they are not selling tickets right now, but a bus leaves to D
arkhan every hour and I can purchase a ticket once I am on the bus of my choosing. I then put my trust in a nice young
Mongolian girl to watch my bags while I run to toll toilet. 100
tugruks to use,
another 100 for toilet paper. Thankfully, by bags, including the one with my cat, are still there when I return. I find a cab and head to the peace corps office.
At PC, I find that a
PCV who
accidentally took my
flip flops back in August, has placed them in my box. (
woohoo! Thanks Amanda!) I drop off some paperwork and say hi too the people working and ask for
suggestions on food that is nearby, fast, and yummy. One of the
Mongolians I ask offers me the half of her sandwich she couldn't finish for lunch. What a peach! It was a chicken club and it was very nearby, fast, and
extremely yummy! Best thing to happen ever.
A little while later I walk with fellow
PCV Alice to the duty free store to make a
Christmas purchase and then to the main road to get a taxi. She heads to Big Burger and I get a cab and head back to Dragon Center to hopefully find a bus.
Taxis in
Mongolia are everywhere. Almost anybody will pick you up and take you to your destination, not just people who drive for a living, but really anyone if they have the time. And if you are a foreigner, especially one with bags, people really want to get you in their cab. The trick is to confirm that they will charge you 500
tugruks a kilometer and now approximately how much you should be charged for the trip. Dragon Center to around PC is about 4000
tugruks. It also helps to speak
Mongolian and let them know that you live in Mongolia and are not just a wealthy tourist. It is
alot easier to convince them of this in the middle of December. I always ask them if they live in the city, ask them how their job is, ask them if they know
Overhunghai (my
aimag...like a state), tell them I live in
Arvaikheer, and then clench it with telling them I live in a
ger. They love this. A woman living in a
ger alone never happens and a white girl doing it is hilarious. They
usually ask me if my
ger is cold and if I am an English teacher. Not only does this usually prevent
hassles about the charge, but they usually help with my bags and are really nice.
Arriving at Dragon Center is hilarious. About 15 guys are trying to get me to go to wherever their vehicle is headed. Once I say
Darkhan, a few grab my bags and head towards their
meekers. A meeker is a small van type vehicle that are everywhere here. I try to insist on going on the bus, which are a safer bet, but they tell me a bus isn't leaving for another few hours and the most
insistent driver tells me his meeker will leave in 40 minutes. So I have my first traveling by meeker for more than an hour experience. It actually was fine. We were not that crowded (only 15 people, I rode in one this summer with 22) and the we made no stops along the way. There are many stories of drivers stopping in the middle of the countryside at a
ger for some
socializing, vodka, and what not. About an hour in the guy sitting next to me with two large boxes between his legs turns to be and asks in English if I am going to
Darkhan. He turns out to speak fairly good
English and is a very nice young man. About 2 hours in the weather starts to turn bad. Blowing snow and high winds. I want to tell the driver that, from someone who grew up in South Dakota, it is actually better to not have your brights on during blowing snow since it just reflects off the snow and makes it even more
difficult to see, but my Mongolian isn't nearly that good so I just had to hope for the best. It turns out that my meeker friend lives
across the street from
Steph and Ryan, so we were able to share a taxi and I finally made it to
their apartment. 6 hours on a bus, 3 1/2 in a meeker, and Phoebe and I arrived!
woohoo!
Wow, this is a long post. Descriptions of Christmas festivities will have to wait. Happy Christmas I love you all! love, C
PS thanks for the note Camber's mom! Happy Holidays!